Please don’t judge if you stumble upon my views. I merely share this for scientific and research purposes, if you have questions feel free to comment or message me.
Below is quoted from comments I made during a discussion with my friends
My view on modern sexuality
I’m monogamous (loyal to single partner) and heartbreak is the worse pain! And sexuality as majority of people treat it today is so devolved and primitive. Because the goal of human communication isn’t mutual satisfaction. It isn’t reproduction. Its in being able to accept differences, develop societies, a sense of belonging in families.
Because the survival of any species depends on socialism. Reason why animals move herds, birds fly in flocks, bees live in colonies and humans create culture. To deny communication is to deny the very reason we exist. The idea that we exist for each other to be part of each other’s lives. Sexuality is but a small reward to the individual. Perverting it won’t get us far.
I think honosexuality is an abnormality/disorder. It only exists as a genetic flaw in human biology. Because humans are in constant conflict instead of accepting differences they are accepting similarities.
In my analogy, honosexuality is the result of our miscommunication. :>
I.e. with enough heartbreaks I may as well become gay. Or my kids may based of the genetic experience I pass on.
You always hear people saying I discovered I’m a lesbian <<< hints of a gay convert….
Gays are friendlier and nicer because
A: you don't feel threatened around them.
And B: they actually only talk to you because you're a good person.
While normal girls and guys can be easily lured by display of character. An opposite orientation will always see the human aspect. And never consider the idea of fornication.
SURPRISE: cultures of no sex before marriage encourage people to see the human aspect and based of that they get married! (Shocking).
Bisexuality or the (careless/confused) community are people who careless about satisfying others and only seek own satisfaction by (whichever) means.
Bisexual: If one doesn't work…. Let's try the other!
Gay born: abused by the world and judged for being different, their interests naturally align with same Gender. And they are also in love with themselves in the mirror! Homosexuality does NOT embrace differences at all. Instead it seeks identical interests. This is TOTALLY normal. but even in gay community a polarisation occurs. One will be dominant and one will be submissive. Except in their case they can actually switch roles without rear thoughts.
Gay converts: don't hate at them. They're not fake. And some of them were forcibly pushed into being straight in a society (just like when you force a left handed person to be right handed). Sooner or later they will start using their left hand. It takes time for them to naturally recover from social pressure to what they are, the other parts where normal straight people become gay as part of social influence.
Believe it or not. People today think GAY is COOL. so they intentionally declare themselves gay in pursuit of attention! While I won't argue which sex does this more. I strongly believe that the majority of gay converts.. Are simply gay because its a fad. And a couple years from now they will be happily married to their opposite gender anyway!
All what I'm saying is my personal conclusion. I'm not implying anything I said being a fact. But I do a lot of reading and I meet and ask a lot of questions. I also don't mean to offend someone or some gender. If I did I'm sorry.
As for my orientation I'll tell you.
I'm a bisexual who decided to be straight. And although I'm attracted to men more I made the choice where I believe I can build a better future.